This blog is meant to be a collection of open letters targeted towards cisgender people who unintentionally say or do something offensive to transgender people. Constantly explaining why it’s rude to ask for a “real name” or why it’s not okay to use certain words to describe transgender people is tiring.  As such, this serves as a handy resource for fellow transgender people to direct people to rather than having to educate everyone who pesters them with invasive questions.